"And when I stopped doing that and started thinking about what feels natural and what feels right to me and started pleasing myself, then it became good"
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The phrasing tells you where the pressure was. “Doing that” is left vague on purpose, a placeholder for every externalized script: chasing approval, mimicking what’s “supposed” to work, bargaining with gatekeepers. The pivot is tactile and bodily: “feels natural,” “feels right.” Howard frames creativity as something you can sense in your nervous system before you can justify it. That’s a quietly radical stance in an industry that rewards readability, brand safety, and constant translation of self into product.
“Started pleasing myself” is the line’s little provocation. In Hollywood, “please yourself” can sound like arrogance, but he’s using it as an antidote to distortion. The subtext: authenticity isn’t a virtue; it’s a method. When you stop acting for approval, you paradoxically become better at acting. The final “then it became good” lands with blunt, almost amused certainty, like he’s describing a technical fix, not a spiritual awakening. It’s an artist admitting that the work improves when the crowd is no longer in the room.
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| Topic | Self-Love |
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Howard, Terrence. (2026, January 15). And when I stopped doing that and started thinking about what feels natural and what feels right to me and started pleasing myself, then it became good. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-when-i-stopped-doing-that-and-started-154196/
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Howard, Terrence. "And when I stopped doing that and started thinking about what feels natural and what feels right to me and started pleasing myself, then it became good." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-when-i-stopped-doing-that-and-started-154196/.
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"And when I stopped doing that and started thinking about what feels natural and what feels right to me and started pleasing myself, then it became good." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-when-i-stopped-doing-that-and-started-154196/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






