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War & Peace Quote by Sanford I. Weill

"And when we used to play and fight in the streets in Brooklyn and I would get hurt or something, my mother would always come out and save me. So that sort of postponed the inevitable about getting a good beating, without having somebody to come and save you"

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There is a neat bit of self-mythologizing tucked into Weill's Brooklyn memory: the financier as street kid, the executive suite as a later version of the sidewalk. He frames childhood not as innocence but as training ground, where pain is currency and the lesson is delivered in fists. The key move is the phrase "postponed the inevitable" - as if getting "a good beating" is a law of nature, not a contingent outcome shaped by community, class, and choice. That fatalism doubles as a moral alibi: the world is rough, therefore toughness is virtue, therefore those who win must have earned it.

The mother figure does two things at once. She is tenderness, but she is also an obstacle - someone who delays the real education. In Weill's telling, rescue becomes coddling, and protection becomes a handicap. It's a familiar American business narrative, where hardship is treated like an MBA and vulnerability is a debt you need to refinance into grit. Coming from a titan of finance, the anecdote reads less like confession than calibration: a way to justify a worldview built on competition without guardians.

The subtext is also about loneliness and authority. "Without having somebody to come and save you" is the adult rulebook he wants to normalize: no safety nets, no referees, no soft landings. It's a street story that quietly endorses a market story - survival as proof of merit, and help as interference.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Weill, Sanford I. (2026, January 16). And when we used to play and fight in the streets in Brooklyn and I would get hurt or something, my mother would always come out and save me. So that sort of postponed the inevitable about getting a good beating, without having somebody to come and save you. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-when-we-used-to-play-and-fight-in-the-streets-97238/

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Weill, Sanford I. "And when we used to play and fight in the streets in Brooklyn and I would get hurt or something, my mother would always come out and save me. So that sort of postponed the inevitable about getting a good beating, without having somebody to come and save you." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-when-we-used-to-play-and-fight-in-the-streets-97238/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"And when we used to play and fight in the streets in Brooklyn and I would get hurt or something, my mother would always come out and save me. So that sort of postponed the inevitable about getting a good beating, without having somebody to come and save you." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-when-we-used-to-play-and-fight-in-the-streets-97238/. Accessed 22 Feb. 2026.

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Sanford I. Weill

Sanford I. Weill (born March 16, 1933) is a Businessman from USA.

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