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Creativity Quote by Lara St. John

"Another thing: despite my youthful appearance, I am quite capable of making decisions"

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A violinist shouldn’t have to preface her authority with a disclaimer, but Lara St. John’s line lands because it’s built like the kind of sentence you say only after you’ve been quietly steamrolled. The setup is domestic and almost throwaway: "Another thing:" - the verbal equivalent of tapping the mic, signaling she’s done letting small slights slide. Then comes the dagger: "despite my youthful appearance". It’s a concession to the room’s bias, offered with just enough politeness to expose how ridiculous the bias is in the first place.

The intent is corrective, but the subtext is structural. St. John isn’t merely asserting personal competence; she’s pointing to an industry that routinely confuses aesthetic packaging with professional legitimacy. Classical music, for all its talk of timeless greatness, can be aggressively old-fashioned about who gets to be perceived as serious: youth reads as "not ready", femininity reads as "not authoritative", and visibility can be punished as vanity. Her phrasing anticipates the patronizing pushback ("you look so young!") and flips it into a boundary: I heard you, and no, you don’t get to manage me.

"Quite capable of making decisions" is deliberately plain, almost bureaucratic. That’s the point. She’s not asking for admiration; she’s demanding the baseline respect any adult professional should receive without performing gravitas. The wit is in the restraint: a calm sentence that exposes how exhausting it is to have to audition for autonomy.

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John, Lara St. (n.d.). Another thing: despite my youthful appearance, I am quite capable of making decisions. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/another-thing-despite-my-youthful-appearance-i-am-69969/

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John, Lara St. "Another thing: despite my youthful appearance, I am quite capable of making decisions." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/another-thing-despite-my-youthful-appearance-i-am-69969/.

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"Another thing: despite my youthful appearance, I am quite capable of making decisions." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/another-thing-despite-my-youthful-appearance-i-am-69969/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.

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Lara St. John (born April 15, 1971) is a Musician from Canada.

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