"Any decision I make is based on myself, and the only person I have to give an explanation to is God"
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It reads like a boundary drawn with a velvet rope: access denied, with a spiritual justification stamped on the wristband. When Solange says any decision is “based on myself,” she’s not selling selfishness so much as reclaiming authorship. In celebrity culture, women (especially Black women) are trained to treat every choice as a public referendum - on likability, respectability, gratitude. This line refuses that economy. It’s an insistence that personal agency isn’t a negotiation.
The pivot to “the only person I have to give an explanation to is God” does two things at once. It elevates her autonomy by rooting it in something larger than public opinion, and it shuts down the most common trapdoor in fame: the demand for receipts. God becomes both witness and firewall. If you can’t cross-examine the divine, you can’t cross-examine her. That’s not evasion; it’s strategic privacy.
There’s also a subtle flex here: she’s not claiming she owes no one anything. She’s saying accountability exists, but it’s not crowdsourced. In a world where social media turns “explain yourself” into a sport, the statement reframes explanation as sacred, not performative. The cultural moment matters: public figures are expected to narrate their choices in real time, ideally in a way that makes everyone feel consulted. Solange’s intent is to keep the decision-making internal, the meaning-making personal, and the judgment, pointedly, out of the comment section.
The pivot to “the only person I have to give an explanation to is God” does two things at once. It elevates her autonomy by rooting it in something larger than public opinion, and it shuts down the most common trapdoor in fame: the demand for receipts. God becomes both witness and firewall. If you can’t cross-examine the divine, you can’t cross-examine her. That’s not evasion; it’s strategic privacy.
There’s also a subtle flex here: she’s not claiming she owes no one anything. She’s saying accountability exists, but it’s not crowdsourced. In a world where social media turns “explain yourself” into a sport, the statement reframes explanation as sacred, not performative. The cultural moment matters: public figures are expected to narrate their choices in real time, ideally in a way that makes everyone feel consulted. Solange’s intent is to keep the decision-making internal, the meaning-making personal, and the judgment, pointedly, out of the comment section.
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| Topic | God |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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