"Any first lady can do whatever they want to do. In this country, people expect them to work on whatever they want or to have a career of their own"
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The phrase “in this country” quietly recruits patriotic authority to normalize choice: if America stands for anything, it’s supposedly this. But the next clause gives away the bargain: “people expect them to work” on something. Freedom is permitted, not absolute; it’s freedom conditioned on productivity and public-facing virtue. Even self-determination gets translated into acceptable labor - literacy initiatives, children’s welfare, soft diplomacy - causes that read as nonthreatening and “appropriate” to the office. That expectation is a leash dressed up as empowerment.
Context matters. Bush, often cast as restrained and private, is defending the modern first lady as more than decorative while still signaling a non-disruptive model of ambition. Her wording also reflects the post-second-wave moment when “having a career of their own” became a respectable demand, even as the country continued to treat the president’s spouse as a public asset. The subtext: you can choose your project, but you can’t choose invisibility, and you can’t choose to stop being a symbol.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Bush, Laura. (n.d.). Any first lady can do whatever they want to do. In this country, people expect them to work on whatever they want or to have a career of their own. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/any-first-lady-can-do-whatever-they-want-to-do-in-19315/
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Bush, Laura. "Any first lady can do whatever they want to do. In this country, people expect them to work on whatever they want or to have a career of their own." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/any-first-lady-can-do-whatever-they-want-to-do-in-19315/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Any first lady can do whatever they want to do. In this country, people expect them to work on whatever they want or to have a career of their own." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/any-first-lady-can-do-whatever-they-want-to-do-in-19315/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.






