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Daily Inspiration Quote by John Locke

"Any one reflecting upon the thought he has of the delight, which any present or absent thing is apt to produce in him, has the idea we call love"

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Love, for Locke, is less a thunderbolt from the gods than a piece of mental bookkeeping. The line has the cool austerity of a philosopher trying to drag romance into the daylight: scan your own mind, notice what brings you “delight,” and you’ll find what you’ve been calling love. It’s a definitional move with teeth. Locke doesn’t ask you to trust poetry or tradition; he asks you to audit experience.

The intent is characteristically empirical. Writing in an age rattled by religious conflict and political upheaval, Locke builds a theory of the self that starts not with inherited essences but with observable operations of consciousness. “Present or absent” matters: love isn’t tethered to the object’s physical proximity. It’s a durable idea, powered by memory, anticipation, and imagination. That quietly explains obsession, nostalgia, and longing without ever invoking fate.

The subtext is even sharper: love is not a mysterious substance residing in the heart. It’s an idea produced by how the mind links objects to pleasure. That doesn’t cheapen love so much as relocate it. The beloved becomes, in part, a cognitive habit - a pattern of association that can be strengthened, redirected, or (in principle) unlearned. In a culture used to treating passions as either virtues or sins, Locke treats them as data.

Rhetorically, the sentence performs what it recommends: it nudges the reader into self-surveillance. “Any one reflecting” universalizes the method, democratizing insight. Love becomes legible, not sacred - and that’s the modern note humming underneath the 17th-century prose.

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Locke, John. (n.d.). Any one reflecting upon the thought he has of the delight, which any present or absent thing is apt to produce in him, has the idea we call love. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/any-one-reflecting-upon-the-thought-he-has-of-the-32125/

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Locke, John. "Any one reflecting upon the thought he has of the delight, which any present or absent thing is apt to produce in him, has the idea we call love." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/any-one-reflecting-upon-the-thought-he-has-of-the-32125/.

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"Any one reflecting upon the thought he has of the delight, which any present or absent thing is apt to produce in him, has the idea we call love." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/any-one-reflecting-upon-the-thought-he-has-of-the-32125/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.

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John Locke (August 29, 1632 - October 28, 1704) was a Philosopher from England.

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