"Any problem, big or small, within a family, always seems to start with bad communication. Someone isn't listening"
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The kicker is the last sentence. “Someone isn’t listening” is deliberately vague, a verbal mirror held up to the speaker as much as the accused. Families are arenas where people talk past each other with expert precision, not because they lack words but because listening is risky. Hearing a sibling’s hurt might require admitting you were careless; hearing a parent’s fear might puncture your independence; hearing a child’s anger might force you to reckon with your own patterns. In that sense, “bad communication” isn’t a technical glitch - it’s a defense mechanism.
As an actress known for intelligent, emotionally exact performances, Thompson’s intent feels less like a therapy slogan and more like a narrative note: plot happens when characters refuse to receive information that would soften them. Her emphasis on listening also reflects a cultural moment saturated with speech - texts, posts, arguments - and starved for the kind of attention that changes behavior. The line doesn’t promise easy fixes. It suggests the real family emergency is not what’s said, but what goes unreceived.
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Thompson, Emma. (2026, January 15). Any problem, big or small, within a family, always seems to start with bad communication. Someone isn't listening. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/any-problem-big-or-small-within-a-family-always-145262/
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Thompson, Emma. "Any problem, big or small, within a family, always seems to start with bad communication. Someone isn't listening." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/any-problem-big-or-small-within-a-family-always-145262/.
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"Any problem, big or small, within a family, always seems to start with bad communication. Someone isn't listening." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/any-problem-big-or-small-within-a-family-always-145262/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






