"Any sane person would have left long ago. But I cannot. I have my sons"
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Then comes the pivot: “But I cannot.” It’s blunt, almost airless. In three words, she flips from social critique to captivity, telegraphing how limited her agency is inside an institution built on appearances and inheritance. The subtext isn’t just marital misery; it’s the machinery of monarchy doing what it does best - turning private life into a public asset and personal exit into a constitutional problem.
“I have my sons” is where the sentence tightens into its real weapon. She’s not appealing to romantic duty or royal obligation; she’s claiming the only leverage she can publicly justify: motherhood. It’s both shield and bargaining chip. In the early 1990s, with tabloids circling and the royal marriage visibly collapsing, Diana understood that the one role the palace couldn’t easily discredit was “mother of the heirs.” The line hints at fear (losing access, influence, stability) and strategy (staying close to protect them, and to remain relevant in a system that could otherwise erase her).
The power here is its quiet indictment: the institution may be gilded, but it’s not gentle - and sanity, for once, sounds like escape.
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Diana, Princess. (2026, January 18). Any sane person would have left long ago. But I cannot. I have my sons. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/any-sane-person-would-have-left-long-ago-but-i-1259/
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Diana, Princess. "Any sane person would have left long ago. But I cannot. I have my sons." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/any-sane-person-would-have-left-long-ago-but-i-1259/.
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"Any sane person would have left long ago. But I cannot. I have my sons." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/any-sane-person-would-have-left-long-ago-but-i-1259/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.





