"Anyone can be passionate, but it takes real lovers to be silly"
About this Quote
Franken, writing for the stage, understands what reads as true under the spotlight. “Real lovers” aren’t the ones who can sustain a mood; they’re the ones who can survive a joke. Silliness is a tiny act of trust: you believe the other person won’t weaponize your awkwardness later, won’t punish you for being unglamorous, won’t confuse vulnerability with weakness. It’s also an antidote to the power games that often pass for romance. When you’re being ridiculous together, hierarchy collapses. You’re not seducing, negotiating, or winning; you’re collaborating.
There’s a quiet modernity to the sentiment. In a culture that prizes curated desire - perfect dates, perfect bodies, perfect captions - “silly” reads as almost subversive. It suggests a relationship sturdy enough to hold imperfection and boredom, not just fireworks. Franken’s intent isn’t to dunk on passion; it’s to demote it. The subtext: the real test of love isn’t how intensely you feel, but how safely you can play.
Quote Details
| Topic | Romantic |
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| Source | Attributed to Rose Franken: "Anybody can be passionate, but it takes real lovers to be silly." Commonly cited; see Wikiquote entry for Rose Franken. |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Franken, Rose. (2026, January 15). Anyone can be passionate, but it takes real lovers to be silly. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/anyone-can-be-passionate-but-it-takes-real-lovers-170449/
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Franken, Rose. "Anyone can be passionate, but it takes real lovers to be silly." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/anyone-can-be-passionate-but-it-takes-real-lovers-170449/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Anyone can be passionate, but it takes real lovers to be silly." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/anyone-can-be-passionate-but-it-takes-real-lovers-170449/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.











