"Apart from that, Mrs. Lincoln, how did you enjoy the play?"
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That’s the subtext: our culture’s talent for compartmentalization, the way politeness can become a kind of violence. By treating trauma as a detachable clause, the speaker performs denial in real time. The line also skewers a certain interview style - the host who steps around the real story because it’s messy, political, or emotionally radioactive, choosing instead the safer consumer question: Did you like the show?
Lehrer, a musician with a satirist’s instincts, uses a historical anchor to make the joke instantly legible. You don’t need a dissertation on Lincoln; you need only the shared memory that this was not "a bad night at the theater". It’s gallows humor that exposes how language can shrink reality, and how easily we collaborate in that shrinking when social smoothness is the priority.
Quote Details
| Topic | Dark Humor |
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| Source | Later attribution: A History of Political Scandals (Andy K. Hughes, 2013) modern compilationISBN: 9781473831582 · ID: nOoHBAAAQBAJ
Evidence: ... Apart from that Mrs Lincoln , how did you enjoy the play ? Tom Lehrer , songwriter , musician , lecturer and mathematician . The president has kept all the promises he intended to keep . Clinton aide George Stephanopoulos . All the ... Other candidates (1) Diversity Day (Script) (The Office (USA), 2005) primary60.0% Song: "Diversity Day (Script)" by The Office (USA) |
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Lehrer, Tom. (2026, February 16). Apart from that, Mrs. Lincoln, how did you enjoy the play? FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/apart-from-that-mrs-lincoln-how-did-you-enjoy-the-157515/
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MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Apart from that, Mrs. Lincoln, how did you enjoy the play?" FixQuotes, 16 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/apart-from-that-mrs-lincoln-how-did-you-enjoy-the-157515/. Accessed 27 Feb. 2026.

