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"Apart from that Mrs Lincoln, how did you enjoy the play?"

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A punchline that lands like a trapdoor: with one polite question, everything unspeakable drops through. Lehrer's line borrows the etiquette of small talk - the reflex to keep conversation pleasant, to pivot back to "the event" - and crashes it into the most infamous interruption in American theater history: Lincoln's assassination at Ford's Theatre. The comedy isn’t just that the question is absurd; it’s that the form of the question is familiar. It mimics the chirpy conversational reset people use after a disagreement or inconvenience, except here the "apart from that" is doing monstrous work, trying to launder catastrophe into a minor footnote.

That’s the subtext: our culture’s talent for compartmentalization, the way politeness can become a kind of violence. By treating trauma as a detachable clause, the speaker performs denial in real time. The line also skewers a certain interview style - the host who steps around the real story because it’s messy, political, or emotionally radioactive, choosing instead the safer consumer question: Did you like the show?

Lehrer, a musician with a satirist’s instincts, uses a historical anchor to make the joke instantly legible. You don’t need a dissertation on Lincoln; you need only the shared memory that this was not "a bad night at the theater". It’s gallows humor that exposes how language can shrink reality, and how easily we collaborate in that shrinking when social smoothness is the priority.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Lehrer, Tom. (2026, January 14). Apart from that Mrs Lincoln, how did you enjoy the play? FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/apart-from-that-mrs-lincoln-how-did-you-enjoy-the-157515/

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Lehrer, Tom. "Apart from that Mrs Lincoln, how did you enjoy the play?" FixQuotes. January 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/apart-from-that-mrs-lincoln-how-did-you-enjoy-the-157515/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Apart from that Mrs Lincoln, how did you enjoy the play?" FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/apart-from-that-mrs-lincoln-how-did-you-enjoy-the-157515/. Accessed 6 Feb. 2026.

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Tom Lehrer

Tom Lehrer (born April 9, 1928) is a Musician from USA.

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