"Aren't most romance heros, or heros in fiction of any kind, generally superior to real men? Same goes for heroines and real women"
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The subtext is less about dunking on reality than defending the bargain romance makes with its readers. These books aren’t documentaries about dating; they’re controlled environments where emotional labor is visible, reciprocated, and rewarded. By extending the point to “heroes in fiction of any kind,” Roberts broadens the critique beyond bodice-rippers into the whole narrative economy: protagonists are optimized for significance. Real people are messy, inconsistent, and often boring in the ways life requires; characters can be distilled into meaning.
Her add-on - “Same goes for heroines and real women” - is the quiet pressure point. Romance has long been accused of selling impossible men; Roberts reminds us it also sells impossible women, often in more socially punishing ways. The context is a writer who helped mainstream contemporary romance, speaking from inside the machine. She’s not apologizing for the upgrade. She’s naming it so readers can want it without confusing it for a job description.
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Roberts, Nora. (2026, January 15). Aren't most romance heros, or heros in fiction of any kind, generally superior to real men? Same goes for heroines and real women. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/arent-most-romance-heros-or-heros-in-fiction-of-151888/
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Roberts, Nora. "Aren't most romance heros, or heros in fiction of any kind, generally superior to real men? Same goes for heroines and real women." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/arent-most-romance-heros-or-heros-in-fiction-of-151888/.
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"Aren't most romance heros, or heros in fiction of any kind, generally superior to real men? Same goes for heroines and real women." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/arent-most-romance-heros-or-heros-in-fiction-of-151888/. Accessed 25 Feb. 2026.







