"Arguments are healthy. They clear the air"
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Coming from a musician best known for steadiness inside a famously volatile band ecosystem, the line reads like a quiet manifesto for creative survival. Rock mythology sells the blowup as spectacle, the tantrum as genius. Deacon offers the less marketable truth: tension has to go somewhere. If it stays bottled, it hardens into resentment, passive aggression, or that slow drift where no one says the real thing until its too late. An argument, by contrast, is audible. It creates a shared record of disagreement. Everyone hears what was previously implied.
The intent is pragmatic: normalize friction so it can be managed instead of feared. The subtext is also a small rebuke to politeness-as-avoidance. "Clear the air" suggests that the real enemy isn't anger; its murkiness - the half-truths, the side conversations, the silence that pretends to be peace. In collaborative worlds - bands, couples, workplaces - the healthiest dynamic isnt constant harmony. Its the ability to fight and still keep playing in time.
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