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"Arguments are to be avoided: they are always vulgar and often convincing"

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Wilde treats argument like a social misdemeanor: not merely rude, but tacky in a way that betrays a lack of style. “Vulgar” is the tell. He’s not condemning disagreement on moral grounds; he’s indicting the whole performance of earnest persuasion as a lapse in taste. In Wilde’s world, conversation is an art form, and art is sabotaged by the heavy furniture of logic. An argument drags private intelligence into public accounting. It forces you to show your work.

The sharper barb is “often convincing.” Wilde isn’t praising the power of reason; he’s warning that conviction is frequently a cheap effect. People don’t get convinced only by truth, but by momentum, confidence, the seductive rhythm of a well-built case. That makes argument dangerous: it can flatten nuance, bully the imagination, and make the wrong idea feel inevitable. Wilde’s cynicism is surgical here - rationality isn’t presented as enlightenment, but as a social weapon that can win regardless of merit.

The intent is doubled: it’s a defense of aestheticism and a satire of Victorian seriousness. Late-19th-century bourgeois culture prized moral certainty and public debate as markers of virtue. Wilde replies that the loudest proof of virtue can be its own kind of vulgarity. The subtext is class and performance: refined people don’t “argue”; they imply, they sparkle, they let meaning arrive by indirection. It’s a line that flatters the witty while quietly exposing the vanity beneath that pose.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Wilde, Oscar. (2026, January 15). Arguments are to be avoided: they are always vulgar and often convincing. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/arguments-are-to-be-avoided-they-are-always-26896/

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Wilde, Oscar. "Arguments are to be avoided: they are always vulgar and often convincing." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/arguments-are-to-be-avoided-they-are-always-26896/.

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"Arguments are to be avoided: they are always vulgar and often convincing." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/arguments-are-to-be-avoided-they-are-always-26896/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Oscar Wilde

Oscar Wilde (October 16, 1854 - November 30, 1900) was a Dramatist from Ireland.

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