"Around people I don't know, I'm totally at a loss"
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The intent is both self-protective and disarming. By naming social discomfort, she reframes aloofness as anxiety, not arrogance. That matters in a culture that loves to read women in public as either too much (diva) or not enough (cold). Streisand’s subtext is: I can sing in front of thousands, but I can’t do the casual small talk that’s supposed to make you “relatable.” Fame doesn’t erase insecurity; it just professionalizes it.
Context sharpens the irony. Streisand came up in an era when stars were expected to project polish and effortless charm, especially in offstage settings: premieres, parties, press. Her admission punctures that PR script. It also hints at the transactional weirdness of celebrity social life: being surrounded by people who feel entitled to you while also being surrounded by people you don’t actually know. “At a loss” can mean shy, but it can also mean unmoored - unsure what version of yourself is safe to offer when everyone has already written their own.
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| Topic | Anxiety |
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Streisand, Barbra. (2026, January 16). Around people I don't know, I'm totally at a loss. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/around-people-i-dont-know-im-totally-at-a-loss-138947/
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Streisand, Barbra. "Around people I don't know, I'm totally at a loss." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/around-people-i-dont-know-im-totally-at-a-loss-138947/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Around people I don't know, I'm totally at a loss." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/around-people-i-dont-know-im-totally-at-a-loss-138947/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.









