"Art enables us to find ourselves and lose ourselves at the same time"
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Then Merton flips it: “lose ourselves.” That’s the real tell. In his world, losing the self isn’t failure; it’s relief. The ego, the managerial voice that keeps score and narrates, gets interrupted. The subtext is anti-possessive: art isn’t something you “use” to brand your personality, it’s something you submit to until your usual boundaries blur. That’s why the line works rhetorically - it sets up a familiar promise (self-discovery) and smuggles in a more demanding one (self-forgetting).
Context matters here: mid-century America was busy selling selfhood as a project - productivity, status, the curated life. Merton’s paradox counters that with a contemplative premise: the self you “find” through art may only appear once the self you cling to loosens its grip.
Quote Details
| Topic | Art |
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| Source | Verified source: Reality, Art, & Prayer (Thomas Merton, 1955)
Evidence: Art enables us to find ourselves and lose ourselves at the same time. (null). This sentence appears in Thomas Merton’s article “Reality, Art, & Prayer,” which Commonweal states (on the article page) first appeared in its March 25, 1955 issue. The page also notes the piece is an excerpt from Merton’s book No Man Is an Island, published that same week by Harcourt, Brace (New York, 1955). Therefore, the earliest clearly verifiable publication instance I can identify online is the March 25, 1955 Commonweal issue (article excerpt), with the quote occurring in the article text. Other candidates (1) Art Enables Us to Find Ourselves and Lose Ourselves at th... (Score Your Goal, 2019) compilation92.3% "Art enables us to find ourselves and lose ourselves at the same time."-Thomas Merton, No Man Is an Island |
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"Art enables us to find ourselves and lose ourselves at the same time." FixQuotes, 9 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/art-enables-us-to-find-ourselves-and-lose-2075/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.











