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"Art enables us to find ourselves and lose ourselves at the same time"

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Merton’s line feels like a paradox on purpose: art as both mirror and trapdoor. Coming from a Trappist monk who fled the noise of modern life for a cloister, the sentence is less a soft-focus celebration of “creativity” than a spiritual technology report. Art, at its best, produces a double movement. “Find ourselves” gestures toward recognition: the sudden click when a painting, a poem, or a piece of music names a feeling you didn’t have language for. It’s identity-making, but not in the Instagram sense; it’s the slow uncovering of what has been buried under habit, anxiety, and performance.

Then Merton flips it: “lose ourselves.” That’s the real tell. In his world, losing the self isn’t failure; it’s relief. The ego, the managerial voice that keeps score and narrates, gets interrupted. The subtext is anti-possessive: art isn’t something you “use” to brand your personality, it’s something you submit to until your usual boundaries blur. That’s why the line works rhetorically - it sets up a familiar promise (self-discovery) and smuggles in a more demanding one (self-forgetting).

Context matters here: mid-century America was busy selling selfhood as a project - productivity, status, the curated life. Merton’s paradox counters that with a contemplative premise: the self you “find” through art may only appear once the self you cling to loosens its grip.

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Verified source: Reality, Art, & Prayer (Thomas Merton, 1955)
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Art enables us to find ourselves and lose ourselves at the same time. (null). This sentence appears in Thomas Merton’s article “Reality, Art, & Prayer,” which Commonweal states (on the article page) first appeared in its March 25, 1955 issue. The page also notes the piece is an excerpt from Merton’s book No Man Is an Island, published that same week by Harcourt, Brace (New York, 1955). Therefore, the earliest clearly verifiable publication instance I can identify online is the March 25, 1955 Commonweal issue (article excerpt), with the quote occurring in the article text.
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"Art enables us to find ourselves and lose ourselves at the same time."-Thomas Merton, No Man Is an Island
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Thomas Merton (January 31, 1915 - December 10, 1968) was a Author from USA.

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