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Motherhood Quote by Mary J. Blige

"As a child I always wanted to be a singer. The music my mother played in the house moved me - Aretha Franklin, Chaka Khan, Mahalia Jackson. It was truly spiritual. It made you understand what God was. We are all spirits. We get depressed. But music makes you want to live. I know my music has saved my life"

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Mary J. Blige frames music less as a career choice than as an early rescue mission. Notice how she starts with childhood wanting and immediately shifts to being moved by her mother’s records: the origin story isn’t “I discovered my talent,” it’s “I was shaped by a household soundscape.” Aretha, Chaka, Mahalia isn’t just a playlist; it’s a lineage of Black women whose voices turn pain into commandment, desire into testimony. By invoking them, Blige places herself inside a tradition where singing is work, witness, and survival tactic.

The quote’s smartest move is how it collapses the sacred and the clinical without getting preachy. “It made you understand what God was” lands because it’s not theology, it’s sensation. Then she pivots: “We are all spirits. We get depressed.” That blunt admission deflates the glamorous myth of the pop star as invulnerable product. Depression isn’t treated as an individual flaw; it’s part of the human weather. Music becomes the counterforce, not as escapism, but as propulsion: it “makes you want to live.” That phrasing is deliberately physical, almost muscular.

When she says her music saved her life, the subtext isn’t self-mythologizing; it’s a claim about utility. Blige’s public persona has always been built on turning private fracture into communal catharsis. The intent here is permission-giving: your sadness is real, your spirit is real, and art can be a lifeline that doesn’t require you to pretend you’re fine.

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Blige, Mary J. (2026, January 15). As a child I always wanted to be a singer. The music my mother played in the house moved me - Aretha Franklin, Chaka Khan, Mahalia Jackson. It was truly spiritual. It made you understand what God was. We are all spirits. We get depressed. But music makes you want to live. I know my music has saved my life. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/as-a-child-i-always-wanted-to-be-a-singer-the-158450/

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Blige, Mary J. "As a child I always wanted to be a singer. The music my mother played in the house moved me - Aretha Franklin, Chaka Khan, Mahalia Jackson. It was truly spiritual. It made you understand what God was. We are all spirits. We get depressed. But music makes you want to live. I know my music has saved my life." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/as-a-child-i-always-wanted-to-be-a-singer-the-158450/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"As a child I always wanted to be a singer. The music my mother played in the house moved me - Aretha Franklin, Chaka Khan, Mahalia Jackson. It was truly spiritual. It made you understand what God was. We are all spirits. We get depressed. But music makes you want to live. I know my music has saved my life." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/as-a-child-i-always-wanted-to-be-a-singer-the-158450/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.

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Mary J. Blige (born January 11, 1971) is a Musician from USA.

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