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Motherhood Quote by Tanith Lee

"As a child, my mother told me lots of fairy stories, many her own invention. She, too, tended to reverse the norm"

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Origin stories in fantasy are usually varnished with sweetness: a parent reads the classics, the child inherits wonder, the genre continues politely. Tanith Lee strips that varnish off and shows the wiring. Her mother didn’t just hand down fairy tales; she manufactured them. That detail matters because it frames imagination as labor, not merely inheritance, and it positions storytelling as a domestic technology: something built at the kitchen table and aimed at the child’s mind like a spell.

The second sentence is the quiet detonator. “She, too” tells you Lee is locating herself inside a lineage of contrariness; her later work doesn’t emerge from rebellion-for-its-own-sake but from a family habit of tilting the frame. “Reverse the norm” is a deceptively mild phrase for what it implies in Lee’s universe: gender roles swapped, morality unlatched from tidy lessons, beauty braided with danger. The subtext is that the so-called norm is already a story someone made up and called natural. If fairy tales can be invented at home, then cultural rules can be, too - and they can be rewritten.

Contextually, Lee came up as a writer when fantasy was still policed by masculine gatekeeping and “traditional” myth. By rooting her creative DNA in a mother’s improvisations and inversion, she legitimizes the outsider angle as ancestral rather than fashionable. It’s a neat, almost offhand manifesto: the best fantasies don’t escape reality; they expose how much of reality is just consensus fiction.

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Lee, Tanith. (2026, January 15). As a child, my mother told me lots of fairy stories, many her own invention. She, too, tended to reverse the norm. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/as-a-child-my-mother-told-me-lots-of-fairy-150109/

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Lee, Tanith. "As a child, my mother told me lots of fairy stories, many her own invention. She, too, tended to reverse the norm." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/as-a-child-my-mother-told-me-lots-of-fairy-150109/.

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"As a child, my mother told me lots of fairy stories, many her own invention. She, too, tended to reverse the norm." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/as-a-child-my-mother-told-me-lots-of-fairy-150109/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Tanith Lee (September 19, 1947 - May 24, 2015) was a Writer from United Kingdom.

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