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"As a general rule, people disappoint you as you know them"

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The line lands with the cool economy of someone who spent her life trusting instruments more than intentions. Maria Mitchell, a 19th-century astronomer navigating elite, male-dominated institutions, isn’t just airing personal cynicism; she’s naming a pattern she likely watched play out in parlors, classrooms, and committees. The phrase "as a general rule" borrows the voice of science - measured, testable, resistant to melodrama. It’s a rhetorical feint: she frames disappointment not as a bruise but as data.

The sting is in "as you know them". Mitchell isn’t claiming people are inherently bad; she’s pointing to the corrosive effect of proximity. At a distance, we project ideals. Up close, we encounter appetite, inconsistency, cowardice, vanity - especially in systems where reputations are curated and women are tolerated only if they’re useful and unobtrusive. The subtext is social: intimacy reveals not just individual flaws but the small betrayals people make to stay safe inside hierarchy.

There’s also self-protection here. For a woman whose credibility depended on being unimpeachably rational, disappointment becomes a disciplined posture: expect less, and you won’t be derailed by the gap between public virtue and private behavior. It’s not a plea for isolation so much as a warning against naïveté. The quote works because it turns emotional experience into a lawlike observation, letting Mitchell sound both worldly and unsentimental - a scientist’s skepticism repurposed for human nature.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Mitchell, Maria. (2026, January 16). As a general rule, people disappoint you as you know them. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/as-a-general-rule-people-disappoint-you-as-you-104826/

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Mitchell, Maria. "As a general rule, people disappoint you as you know them." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/as-a-general-rule-people-disappoint-you-as-you-104826/.

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"As a general rule, people disappoint you as you know them." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/as-a-general-rule-people-disappoint-you-as-you-104826/. Accessed 6 Feb. 2026.

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Maria Mitchell (August 1, 1818 - June 28, 1889) was a Scientist from USA.

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