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Daily Inspiration Quote by Sanjay Dutt

"As a person, I'm pretty much the same except that I've come to terms with who my real friends and supporters are. I don't get particularly friendly with new people at first go"

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Fame has a way of turning every handshake into a test, and Sanjay Dutt’s line reads like someone who’s stopped pretending that the test is flattering. The surface is calm self-reporting: he’s “the same,” just wiser about “real friends and supporters,” and slower to warm up to strangers. The subtext is harsher. He’s describing a life where access is currency, where loyalty is often performative, and where the cost of letting people in can be public, expensive, even dangerous.

Dutt’s particular cultural context matters: a Bollywood career built on charisma and controversy, years of being watched, judged, mythologized, and periodically written off. In that ecosystem, relationships aren’t just emotional; they’re strategic, mediated by managers, tabloids, and the invisible math of what someone can gain from being close to you. “Come to terms” signals resignation, not triumph. He’s not claiming moral clarity so much as emotional survival: the acceptance that some bonds were conditional, and that the conditions have now been exposed.

The second sentence does the real work. “I don’t get particularly friendly with new people at first go” is a polite way to say: I’ve been burned, and I’ve learned to move like someone who has. It’s also an image-management move, preempting the usual celebrity critique of being “aloof.” Dutt reframes distance as discernment, turning caution into a hard-earned boundary rather than a personality flaw.

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Dutt, Sanjay. (2026, January 17). As a person, I'm pretty much the same except that I've come to terms with who my real friends and supporters are. I don't get particularly friendly with new people at first go. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/as-a-person-im-pretty-much-the-same-except-that-81638/

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Dutt, Sanjay. "As a person, I'm pretty much the same except that I've come to terms with who my real friends and supporters are. I don't get particularly friendly with new people at first go." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/as-a-person-im-pretty-much-the-same-except-that-81638/.

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"As a person, I'm pretty much the same except that I've come to terms with who my real friends and supporters are. I don't get particularly friendly with new people at first go." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/as-a-person-im-pretty-much-the-same-except-that-81638/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Sanjay Dutt (born July 29, 1959) is a Actor from India.

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