"As a person, I'm pretty much the same except that I've come to terms with who my real friends and supporters are. I don't get particularly friendly with new people at first go"
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Dutt’s particular cultural context matters: a Bollywood career built on charisma and controversy, years of being watched, judged, mythologized, and periodically written off. In that ecosystem, relationships aren’t just emotional; they’re strategic, mediated by managers, tabloids, and the invisible math of what someone can gain from being close to you. “Come to terms” signals resignation, not triumph. He’s not claiming moral clarity so much as emotional survival: the acceptance that some bonds were conditional, and that the conditions have now been exposed.
The second sentence does the real work. “I don’t get particularly friendly with new people at first go” is a polite way to say: I’ve been burned, and I’ve learned to move like someone who has. It’s also an image-management move, preempting the usual celebrity critique of being “aloof.” Dutt reframes distance as discernment, turning caution into a hard-earned boundary rather than a personality flaw.
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Dutt, Sanjay. (2026, January 17). As a person, I'm pretty much the same except that I've come to terms with who my real friends and supporters are. I don't get particularly friendly with new people at first go. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/as-a-person-im-pretty-much-the-same-except-that-81638/
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Dutt, Sanjay. "As a person, I'm pretty much the same except that I've come to terms with who my real friends and supporters are. I don't get particularly friendly with new people at first go." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/as-a-person-im-pretty-much-the-same-except-that-81638/.
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"As a person, I'm pretty much the same except that I've come to terms with who my real friends and supporters are. I don't get particularly friendly with new people at first go." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/as-a-person-im-pretty-much-the-same-except-that-81638/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.




