"As a person who has spent my career as a child psychologist and have dealt with many children who have struggled with many problems in families, I have seen families ripped apart by so many things that sometimes law has tried to deal with"
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Even on its own terms, the line is doing courtroom work. The long, looping structure mimics testimony: "I have spent", "I have dealt", "I have seen". It piles experience into a substitute for evidence, then turns that experience toward a familiar conclusion: families "ripped apart", and "law" stepping in as a clumsy repair kit. The subtext is a quiet argument for restraint and for deference to something older than statutes - family cohesion as a fragile social technology the state can only imitate.
The vagueness is strategic. "So many things" refuses specifics, which keeps listeners from debating particulars (poverty? violence? alcoholism? war?) and instead shepherds them toward the feeling: breakdown is everywhere, and intervention is always late. For a soldier in the 18th century, that carries an implied context of upheaval - communities strained by conflict, authority contested, private life politicized. The line positions "law" as both necessary and insufficient, inviting sympathy for discipline while warning that rules cannot stitch what trauma unthreads.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Murphy, Timothy. (2026, January 16). As a person who has spent my career as a child psychologist and have dealt with many children who have struggled with many problems in families, I have seen families ripped apart by so many things that sometimes law has tried to deal with. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/as-a-person-who-has-spent-my-career-as-a-child-86580/
Chicago Style
Murphy, Timothy. "As a person who has spent my career as a child psychologist and have dealt with many children who have struggled with many problems in families, I have seen families ripped apart by so many things that sometimes law has tried to deal with." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/as-a-person-who-has-spent-my-career-as-a-child-86580/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"As a person who has spent my career as a child psychologist and have dealt with many children who have struggled with many problems in families, I have seen families ripped apart by so many things that sometimes law has tried to deal with." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/as-a-person-who-has-spent-my-career-as-a-child-86580/. Accessed 22 Feb. 2026.
