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Parenting & Family Quote by Maurice Gibb

"As an alcoholic, you have no appreciation for your wife or your children's feelings, but I'm making up for that now. I'm winning my children's trust back"

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There is a bracing lack of glamour in Maurice Gibb’s admission, and that’s the point. A pop star could easily hide behind euphemisms - “demons,” “a dark time,” “partying too hard.” Instead, he names the collateral damage with domestic specificity: wife, children, feelings. The line isn’t chasing absolution through poetry; it’s trying to earn credibility through plain speech, like someone finally deciding honesty is the only currency that spends.

The intent is twofold: confession and repair. “As an alcoholic” functions like a diagnosis and a defense, but it’s not an excuse. He frames alcoholism as a state that shrinks perception, a theft of empathy: “no appreciation” doesn’t just mean ingratitude; it implies emotional blindness, the inability to register other people as fully real. That’s harsher than “I hurt them,” because it admits a deeper failure of attention.

Then the pivot: “I’m making up for that now.” It’s quietly strategic, aware of how public narratives work. Fans love redemption arcs, but Gibb doesn’t offer a tidy comeback; he offers a process with a measurable stake. “Winning my children’s trust back” casts trust as something forfeited and re-earned, not granted by blood or fame. The verb “winning” is telling: it’s effortful, ongoing, and uncertain.

In the context of a music culture that often romanticizes excess, this is anti-mythmaking. He’s not asking to be celebrated for sobriety. He’s asking to be believed - by the only audience that matters.

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Maurice Gibb (December 22, 1949 - January 12, 2003) was a Musician from Australia.

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