"As far as carrying the American banner, you just do what's right for the kids"
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The specific intent is almost anti-rhetorical: to reject the pressure of representing America as an abstract idea and replace it with a concrete moral task. That substitution is the whole trick. "The kids" is a disarming phrase because it dodges ideology; it's hard to argue with, and Farina knows it. The subtext is a critique of performative patriotism: being seen "carrying the banner" is optics, while doing right by children is outcome. It also quietly reframes citizenship as caretaking rather than chest-thumping, a civic ethic that doesn't require a podium.
Contextually, it lands in a culture that loves to conscript actors into national narratives - especially around crime dramas, war stories, and post-9/11 rhetoric - then punish them when they misstep. Farina's line offers a way out: measure the country by how it treats its most vulnerable, not by how loudly it declares itself.
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| Topic | Parenting |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Farina, Dennis. (2026, January 16). As far as carrying the American banner, you just do what's right for the kids. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/as-far-as-carrying-the-american-banner-you-just-124620/
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Farina, Dennis. "As far as carrying the American banner, you just do what's right for the kids." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/as-far-as-carrying-the-american-banner-you-just-124620/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"As far as carrying the American banner, you just do what's right for the kids." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/as-far-as-carrying-the-american-banner-you-just-124620/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.



