"As far as humor goes, I've always been a very insecure person and I've always wanted to be liked"
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The phrasing matters. “As far as humor goes” narrows the claim to a craft, almost like he’s diagnosing his own stage equipment: this is what the humor is for. Then he pairs two blunt, unromantic motives - insecurity and the desire to be liked - stripping comedy of its flattering narratives about confidence or effortless cool. The subtext is transactional but tender: make them laugh so they won’t leave. It’s also a quiet rebuke to the culture that treats likability as a debt you pay in personality, especially if you’re outwardly intimidating, odd, or “too much.”
Contextually, Steele’s work trafficked in exaggerated gloom, self-mockery, and provocation; the humor often sat right next to sincerity, sometimes disguising it. That mix makes this line ring true: the same voice that could parody macho rock theatrics could also reveal why the theatrics existed. He’s telling you the punchline’s secret job was to negotiate intimacy with an audience from behind a mask.
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Steele, Peter. (2026, January 15). As far as humor goes, I've always been a very insecure person and I've always wanted to be liked. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/as-far-as-humor-goes-ive-always-been-a-very-149886/
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Steele, Peter. "As far as humor goes, I've always been a very insecure person and I've always wanted to be liked." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/as-far-as-humor-goes-ive-always-been-a-very-149886/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"As far as humor goes, I've always been a very insecure person and I've always wanted to be liked." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/as-far-as-humor-goes-ive-always-been-a-very-149886/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.





