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Love Quote by Edith Piaf

"As far as I'm concerned, love means fighting, big fat lies, and a couple of slaps across the face"

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Love, for Piaf, isn’t a soft landing; it’s a contact sport. The line detonates because it refuses the polite, export-ready version of romance and replaces it with something bruised, theatrical, and sickeningly familiar: a relationship where intensity gets mistaken for truth. “Fighting” and “big fat lies” aren’t incidental sins here; they’re presented as the grammar of intimacy, the daily rituals that prove you’re entangled. The slap is the punchline and the wound at once, daring the listener to admit how often passion gets used as an alibi for cruelty.

It works because Piaf is never just describing dysfunction; she’s staging it. The hyperbole (“big fat”) has the cadence of a streetwise narrator who knows the audience is complicit. You can hear the shrug in “as far as I’m concerned,” a defensive little shield that turns autobiography into worldview. It’s confession dressed up as credo.

Context matters: Piaf’s public mythology is built on love as catastrophe - the impoverished Parisian childhood, the hard-earned fame, the men who arrived like storms and left like wreckage. Mid-century chanson thrived on romantic fatalism; Piaf sharpened it into something almost documentary. The subtext isn’t “abuse is love.” It’s more unsettling: when you’ve been trained by chaos, calm can feel like indifference, and pain can masquerade as proof that something is real.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Piaf, Edith. (2026, January 17). As far as I'm concerned, love means fighting, big fat lies, and a couple of slaps across the face. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/as-far-as-im-concerned-love-means-fighting-big-59030/

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Piaf, Edith. "As far as I'm concerned, love means fighting, big fat lies, and a couple of slaps across the face." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/as-far-as-im-concerned-love-means-fighting-big-59030/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"As far as I'm concerned, love means fighting, big fat lies, and a couple of slaps across the face." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/as-far-as-im-concerned-love-means-fighting-big-59030/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Edith Piaf (December 19, 1915 - October 11, 1963) was a Musician from France.

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