"As far as I'm concerned, love means fighting, big fat lies, and a couple of slaps across the face"
About this Quote
It works because Piaf is never just describing dysfunction; she’s staging it. The hyperbole (“big fat”) has the cadence of a streetwise narrator who knows the audience is complicit. You can hear the shrug in “as far as I’m concerned,” a defensive little shield that turns autobiography into worldview. It’s confession dressed up as credo.
Context matters: Piaf’s public mythology is built on love as catastrophe - the impoverished Parisian childhood, the hard-earned fame, the men who arrived like storms and left like wreckage. Mid-century chanson thrived on romantic fatalism; Piaf sharpened it into something almost documentary. The subtext isn’t “abuse is love.” It’s more unsettling: when you’ve been trained by chaos, calm can feel like indifference, and pain can masquerade as proof that something is real.
Quote Details
| Topic | Heartbreak |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Piaf, Edith. (2026, January 17). As far as I'm concerned, love means fighting, big fat lies, and a couple of slaps across the face. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/as-far-as-im-concerned-love-means-fighting-big-59030/
Chicago Style
Piaf, Edith. "As far as I'm concerned, love means fighting, big fat lies, and a couple of slaps across the face." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/as-far-as-im-concerned-love-means-fighting-big-59030/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"As far as I'm concerned, love means fighting, big fat lies, and a couple of slaps across the face." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/as-far-as-im-concerned-love-means-fighting-big-59030/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.














