"As far as service goes, it can take the form of a million things. To do service, you don't have to be a doctor working in the slums for free, or become a social worker. Your position in life and what you do doesn't matter as much as how you do what you do"
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The subtext is almost therapeutic. Kubler-Ross spent her career listening to people at the edge of life, where status and résumé lines stop impressing anyone. So she’s suspicious of “goodness” as performance. By shifting the emphasis from what you do to how you do it, she reframes morality as posture rather than costume: attention, respect, integrity, presence. It’s a standard that can’t be outsourced to a job title, and it can’t be fully proven with optics. In a culture that rewards conspicuous virtue - charity as branding, compassion as content - her line reads like an anti-Instagram ethic.
There’s also a democratic bite to it. If service is primarily an orientation, then every role becomes morally charged: the manager, the cashier, the teacher, the neighbor. That’s both comforting and demanding. You don’t get to hide behind “I’m not that kind of person” or “I don’t have time to volunteer.” You’re already in the arena; the only question is whether you show up with care.
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Kubler-Ross, Elisabeth. (2026, January 18). As far as service goes, it can take the form of a million things. To do service, you don't have to be a doctor working in the slums for free, or become a social worker. Your position in life and what you do doesn't matter as much as how you do what you do. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/as-far-as-service-goes-it-can-take-the-form-of-a-2960/
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Kubler-Ross, Elisabeth. "As far as service goes, it can take the form of a million things. To do service, you don't have to be a doctor working in the slums for free, or become a social worker. Your position in life and what you do doesn't matter as much as how you do what you do." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/as-far-as-service-goes-it-can-take-the-form-of-a-2960/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"As far as service goes, it can take the form of a million things. To do service, you don't have to be a doctor working in the slums for free, or become a social worker. Your position in life and what you do doesn't matter as much as how you do what you do." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/as-far-as-service-goes-it-can-take-the-form-of-a-2960/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.




