"As human beings, we need to know that we are not alone, that we are not crazy or completely out of our minds, that there are other people out there who feel as we do, live as we do, love as we do, who are like us"
About this Quote
The repetition does the heavy lifting. “Feel as we do, live as we do, love as we do” isn’t poetic flourish so much as a widening lens from emotion to lifestyle to intimacy. Joel understands that alienation isn’t just sadness; it’s the suspicion that your entire way of being - your rhythms, your relationships, your desires - is illegible to everyone else. By piling up these clauses, he performs the obsessive scanning people do for proof of their own normalcy.
Context matters because Joel’s songwriting has always been crowded with characters: bartenders, dreamers, working stiffs, lovers mid-argument. He made an arena-sized career out of making specific lives feel broadly recognizable. The subtext is a defense of the radio hit as a public meeting place: three minutes where you hear your own inner mess reflected back, not solved, just shared. That’s the relief he’s pointing to - the moment your loneliness gets corrected by recognition.
Quote Details
| Topic | Loneliness |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Joel, Billy. (2026, January 17). As human beings, we need to know that we are not alone, that we are not crazy or completely out of our minds, that there are other people out there who feel as we do, live as we do, love as we do, who are like us. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/as-human-beings-we-need-to-know-that-we-are-not-46372/
Chicago Style
Joel, Billy. "As human beings, we need to know that we are not alone, that we are not crazy or completely out of our minds, that there are other people out there who feel as we do, live as we do, love as we do, who are like us." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/as-human-beings-we-need-to-know-that-we-are-not-46372/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"As human beings, we need to know that we are not alone, that we are not crazy or completely out of our minds, that there are other people out there who feel as we do, live as we do, love as we do, who are like us." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/as-human-beings-we-need-to-know-that-we-are-not-46372/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.













