"As iron sharpens iron, so a friend sharpens a friend"
About this Quote
The subtext is a quiet rebuke to two easy corruptions of companionship: flattery and isolation. Courts run on both. Kings are surrounded by people who need their approval, which makes praise cheap and truth expensive. In that setting, the most valuable relationship is the one that can risk honesty without becoming rebellion. “Sharpens” implies mutuality, too: not a mentor polishing a lesser mind, but peers improving each other through contact. You don’t get a blade by avoiding pressure; you get it by meeting resistance at the right angle.
Context matters: Proverbs is wisdom literature built for public life, where character is policy. Solomon is essentially offering statecraft in miniature. A ruler (or anyone with power) is constantly being dulled by comfort, routine, and sycophancy. The proverb argues that healthy closeness includes disagreement, accountability, and the kind of conversation that leaves both parties changed. It’s a high bar for friendship, and a pragmatic one: without sharpening relationships, even the most gifted leader becomes blunt.
Quote Details
| Topic | Friendship |
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| Source | Proverbs 27:17 (Hebrew Bible/Old Testament), proverb traditionally attributed to King Solomon; appears in standard Bible editions (see linked translation). |
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Solomon, King. (2026, January 18). As iron sharpens iron, so a friend sharpens a friend. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/as-iron-sharpens-iron-so-a-friend-sharpens-a-18707/
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Solomon, King. "As iron sharpens iron, so a friend sharpens a friend." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/as-iron-sharpens-iron-so-a-friend-sharpens-a-18707/.
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"As iron sharpens iron, so a friend sharpens a friend." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/as-iron-sharpens-iron-so-a-friend-sharpens-a-18707/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.












