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Parenting & Family Quote by Charlie Sheen

"As kids we're not taught how to deal with success; we're taught how to deal with failure. If at first you don't succeed, try, try again. If at first you succeed, then what?"

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Sheen’s line lands because it flips the most overused motivational bumper sticker into a punchline with teeth. “Try, try again” is the approved American script: failure is character-building, failure is safe, failure is legible. Success, he argues, is the unscripted part - the moment when the classroom rhetoric runs out and real life starts asking harder questions.

The subtext is less self-help than self-indictment. We train kids to endure rejection because it’s socially acceptable to stumble; it keeps you humble, teachable, relatable. But we don’t teach them how to metabolize winning without turning it into arrogance, paralysis, or hunger for the next hit. “If at first you succeed, then what?” isn’t a celebration of achievement; it’s a spotlight on the anxiety that follows it: now you’re a standard, a brand, a target. You can’t just be good once. You have to repeat it, explain it, deserve it.

Coming from Charlie Sheen, the context sharpens. He’s a pop-culture case study in sudden, public success and the chaos that can trail it: fame that rewards excess, an industry that confuses attention with stability, an audience that loves the rise and fetishizes the fall. The joke quietly admits that success can be its own coping problem - and that our culture, obsessed with winning, is strangely unprepared to teach anyone what winning actually does to you.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Sheen, Charlie. (2026, January 17). As kids we're not taught how to deal with success; we're taught how to deal with failure. If at first you don't succeed, try, try again. If at first you succeed, then what? FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/as-kids-were-not-taught-how-to-deal-with-success-30524/

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Sheen, Charlie. "As kids we're not taught how to deal with success; we're taught how to deal with failure. If at first you don't succeed, try, try again. If at first you succeed, then what?" FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/as-kids-were-not-taught-how-to-deal-with-success-30524/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"As kids we're not taught how to deal with success; we're taught how to deal with failure. If at first you don't succeed, try, try again. If at first you succeed, then what?" FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/as-kids-were-not-taught-how-to-deal-with-success-30524/. Accessed 9 Feb. 2026.

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Charlie Sheen (born September 3, 1965) is a Actor from USA.

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