"As long as a word remains unspoken, you are its master; once you utter it, you are its slave"
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The intent isn’t to romanticize quietness. It’s to outline an ethics of restraint: before speech, you have choice; after speech, you have consequences. The subtext is a critique of human impulsiveness. We like to treat talking as harmless ventilation, but Ibn Gabirol insists that utterance creates obligation. A promise binds. An insult escalates. A confession changes the story of who you are. Even a casual claim recruits you into defending it later, long after you’ve stopped believing it.
As a poet and philosopher in medieval al-Andalus, Ibn Gabirol lived amid sophisticated court culture and intense religious scrutiny, where rhetoric could elevate or ruin. His wording is deliberately absolutist - master vs. slave - because the trap is that simple: you can’t control how your words travel. The irony is that he uses a sentence to argue for the danger of sentences, performing the risk as he warns against it.
Quote Details
| Topic | Wisdom |
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| Source | Later attribution: Phillips' Book of Great Thoughts and Funny Sayings (Bob Phillips, 2024) modern compilationISBN: 9781496488459 · ID: 17jxEAAAQBAJ
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... As long as a word remains unspoken, you are its master; once you utter it, you are its slave. Solomon Ibn Gabirol Say nothing good of yourself, you will be distrusted; say nothing bad of yourself, you will be taken at your word. Joseph ... |
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"As long as a word remains unspoken, you are its master; once you utter it, you are its slave." FixQuotes, 13 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/as-long-as-a-word-remains-unspoken-you-are-its-63456/. Accessed 2 Mar. 2026.








