"As Mark Weiner puts it, whether you gain 50 pounds or lose 50 pounds, whether you have a sex change operation for that matter, that it doesn't matter, that there is some part of ourselves that we cannot escape"
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Solondz frames identity as a horror you can’t diet, transition, or makeover your way out of, and he does it with the flat, deadpan piling-on that defines his filmmaking. The list is deliberately jarring: “gain 50 pounds,” “lose 50 pounds,” then the rhetorical escalation to “a sex change operation.” It’s not an argument about bodies so much as a provocation about the limits of bodily solutions. By yoking ordinary self-reinvention to a culturally charged example, he tests a modern faith: that the self is plastic, that enough willpower or technology can finally make you new.
The intent reads less like moral certainty than Solondz’s signature discomfort machine. He’s interested in the moment when self-improvement turns into self-erasure, when liberation rhetoric collides with the stubbornness of memory, family imprinting, desire, shame. The phrase “for that matter” is telling: it’s casual, even careless, performing the blaseness of someone who’s watched too many reinvention narratives and remains unconvinced. “Some part of ourselves that we cannot escape” lands like a quiet verdict, but it’s also an invitation to look for what, exactly, is inescapable: trauma? temperament? social labeling? the stories other people keep telling about you?
Context matters: Solondz comes out of late-90s/early-2000s American culture, obsessed with makeovers, therapy-speak, and the promise of personal rebranding. His work keeps asking whether the culture of “becoming” is actually a culture of denial, and whether the self we’re chasing is just another costume over the same ache.
The intent reads less like moral certainty than Solondz’s signature discomfort machine. He’s interested in the moment when self-improvement turns into self-erasure, when liberation rhetoric collides with the stubbornness of memory, family imprinting, desire, shame. The phrase “for that matter” is telling: it’s casual, even careless, performing the blaseness of someone who’s watched too many reinvention narratives and remains unconvinced. “Some part of ourselves that we cannot escape” lands like a quiet verdict, but it’s also an invitation to look for what, exactly, is inescapable: trauma? temperament? social labeling? the stories other people keep telling about you?
Context matters: Solondz comes out of late-90s/early-2000s American culture, obsessed with makeovers, therapy-speak, and the promise of personal rebranding. His work keeps asking whether the culture of “becoming” is actually a culture of denial, and whether the self we’re chasing is just another costume over the same ache.
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