"As soon as you forbid something, you make it extraordinarily appealing. You also bring shame in as a phenomenon"
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Then he pivots to the quieter weapon: shame. “Bring shame in as a phenomenon” reads like a photographer’s observation about lighting - introduce a harsh spotlight and the subject changes shape. Shame doesn’t merely police behavior; it rearranges the inner life around secrecy. Once a desire or body is tagged as unacceptable, people learn to split themselves: public compliance, private fixation. The taboo doesn’t disappear; it goes underground, where it can grow stranger, more obsessive, more loaded.
The context matters because Sturges’ own work, centered on adolescent nudity in naturist settings, has lived for decades at the fault line between art, sexuality, and child protection. His defenders argue he documents a culture of nonsexual nudity; his critics see eroticization no matter the intent. In that pressure cooker, the quote reads like both diagnosis and self-defense: a claim that panic and censorship can be the very forces that sexualize what was presented as ordinary. Subtext: the culture that insists it is protecting innocence may be manufacturing the very prurience it fears, then laundering it through outrage.
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Sturges, Jock. (2026, January 14). As soon as you forbid something, you make it extraordinarily appealing. You also bring shame in as a phenomenon. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/as-soon-as-you-forbid-something-you-make-it-4102/
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Sturges, Jock. "As soon as you forbid something, you make it extraordinarily appealing. You also bring shame in as a phenomenon." FixQuotes. January 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/as-soon-as-you-forbid-something-you-make-it-4102/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"As soon as you forbid something, you make it extraordinarily appealing. You also bring shame in as a phenomenon." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/as-soon-as-you-forbid-something-you-make-it-4102/. Accessed 8 Feb. 2026.









