"As we express our gratitude, we must never forget that the highest appreciation is not to utter words, but to live by them"
About this Quote
The sentence is built like a quiet reprimand. “As we express our gratitude” grants the crowd its rituals - the applause, the commemorations, the patriotic phrasing - then the pivot lands: “we must never forget.” That “must” is doing heavy lifting. It turns appreciation into duty, and duty into something measurable. Kennedy doesn’t ask for warmer feelings; he demands alignment between words and life. The “highest appreciation” is a values hierarchy: talk is cheap, action is expensive.
Contextually, Kennedy’s presidency was saturated with performances of national unity and calls to service - Cold War anxieties, military valor, civil rights pressure, the emerging “ask not” ethos. In that atmosphere, gratitude could easily become a comforting script deployed at parades or podiums, a way to feel righteous without changing anything. Kennedy’s subtext pushes against that temptation. If you claim to honor sacrifice - of soldiers, citizens, predecessors - you’re implicitly agreeing to carry the burden forward. The quote works because it treats hypocrisy not as a personal flaw but as a national risk: a country that confuses ceremony for commitment eventually runs out of credibility.
Quote Details
| Topic | Gratitude |
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| Source | Verified source: Proclamation 3560, Thanksgiving Day, 1963 (John F. Kennedy, 1963)
Evidence: As we express our gratitude, we must never forget that the highest appreciation is not to utter words but to live by them.. This line appears in President John F. Kennedy’s Thanksgiving Day proclamation (Proclamation 3560). The American Presidency Project reproduces the full text and dates it as released November 5, 1963 (while noting the document is dated November 4, 1963). This is a primary presidential document (a formal proclamation), not a later quote compilation. Other candidates (1) Congressional Record (United States. Congress, 1963) compilation96.1% ... John Mansfield's tribute is ap- ship and consideration. American people . We are sure he can count upon it ... As... |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Kennedy, John F. (2026, February 8). As we express our gratitude, we must never forget that the highest appreciation is not to utter words, but to live by them. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/as-we-express-our-gratitude-we-must-never-forget-24817/
Chicago Style
Kennedy, John F. "As we express our gratitude, we must never forget that the highest appreciation is not to utter words, but to live by them." FixQuotes. February 8, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/as-we-express-our-gratitude-we-must-never-forget-24817/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"As we express our gratitude, we must never forget that the highest appreciation is not to utter words, but to live by them." FixQuotes, 8 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/as-we-express-our-gratitude-we-must-never-forget-24817/. Accessed 24 Feb. 2026.













