"Ask those who love Him with a sincere love, and they will tell you that they find no greater or prompter relief amid the troubles of their life than in loving conversation with their Divine Friend"
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The intent is pastoral and tactical. Liguori, a moral theologian and founder of the Redemptorists, wrote for ordinary believers who were exhausted by scrupulosity and fear-based piety in a Catholic world still marked by Counter-Reformation rigor. He offers a shortcut through anxiety: not better self-control, not harsher penance, but a relational practice. “Ask those who love Him” functions like testimonial evidence, an early-modern version of social proof. If you doubt, consult the lived experience of the devout; their calm becomes the argument.
The subtext is also a quiet rebalancing of power. Calling God “Friend” softens the terror of judgment without denying it; it makes obedience feel less like surveillance and more like companionship. Even “sincere love” draws a boundary: this isn’t mechanical prayer or status religion. It’s an interior posture that turns spiritual discipline into attachment. Relief arrives “promptly” because conversation is always available; grace is framed as accessible, not gated by perfection. In an age of confessional seriousness, that’s a radical comfort.
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Liguori, Alphonsus. (2026, January 17). Ask those who love Him with a sincere love, and they will tell you that they find no greater or prompter relief amid the troubles of their life than in loving conversation with their Divine Friend. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ask-those-who-love-him-with-a-sincere-love-and-42373/
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Liguori, Alphonsus. "Ask those who love Him with a sincere love, and they will tell you that they find no greater or prompter relief amid the troubles of their life than in loving conversation with their Divine Friend." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ask-those-who-love-him-with-a-sincere-love-and-42373/.
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"Ask those who love Him with a sincere love, and they will tell you that they find no greater or prompter relief amid the troubles of their life than in loving conversation with their Divine Friend." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ask-those-who-love-him-with-a-sincere-love-and-42373/. Accessed 25 Feb. 2026.






