"At first, I only laughed at myself. Then I noticed that life itself is amusing. I've been in a generally good mood ever since"
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The intent is quietly methodological. Vos Savant, famous for making high-IQ logic feel like a kitchen-table tool, smuggles a cognitive strategy into a breezy anecdote: reframe humiliation as comedy, then generalize the reframing until it becomes a worldview. “Amusing” is doing careful work. It’s not “funny,” which demands a joke writer and an audience; it’s observational, almost clinical. You don’t have to win, or even be right. You just have to notice.
The subtext is a rebuke to seriousness as a moral posture. Taking everything personally makes you fragile; taking everything solemnly makes you tedious. Her line suggests a third stance: curiosity with a smirk. Context matters, too: a public intellectual who spent years being challenged, doubted, and nitpicked. The joke isn’t only on her; it’s on the whole enterprise of striving to look unembarrassable. Once you accept that the human project is a little absurd, you stop treating every stumble like a verdict.
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| Topic | Happiness |
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Savant, Marilyn vos. (2026, January 17). At first, I only laughed at myself. Then I noticed that life itself is amusing. I've been in a generally good mood ever since. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/at-first-i-only-laughed-at-myself-then-i-noticed-82109/
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Savant, Marilyn vos. "At first, I only laughed at myself. Then I noticed that life itself is amusing. I've been in a generally good mood ever since." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/at-first-i-only-laughed-at-myself-then-i-noticed-82109/.
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"At first, I only laughed at myself. Then I noticed that life itself is amusing. I've been in a generally good mood ever since." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/at-first-i-only-laughed-at-myself-then-i-noticed-82109/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.











