"At first it was my brother's songwriting and I was just doing what everyone told me"
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The second clause sharpens the subtext: “just doing what everyone told me” captures the chorus of pressures that shape young artists, especially women fronting male-led groups. It’s not merely “the label” or “the band” but “everyone” - a fog of expectations, advice, rules, and judgments that can feel like common sense at the time. The word “just” minimizes her own early contribution, but it also indicts a system that trains you to minimize yourself.
In Stefani’s context - from No Doubt’s ska-punk beginnings to her eventual reinvention as a solo pop persona - the quote reads as a quiet thesis statement. It explains why her later work leans so hard into image, voice, and authorship: not vanity, but reclamation. The irony is that the pop star known for maximal self-styling starts her story by admitting she didn’t yet get to be the author of herself.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Stefani, Gwen. (2026, January 17). At first it was my brother's songwriting and I was just doing what everyone told me. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/at-first-it-was-my-brothers-songwriting-and-i-was-74539/
Chicago Style
Stefani, Gwen. "At first it was my brother's songwriting and I was just doing what everyone told me." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/at-first-it-was-my-brothers-songwriting-and-i-was-74539/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"At first it was my brother's songwriting and I was just doing what everyone told me." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/at-first-it-was-my-brothers-songwriting-and-i-was-74539/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.

