"At one point in your life, you'll have the thing you want or the reasons why you don't"
About this Quote
The intent is to reframe disappointment as information. Either you end up holding the trophy - the job, the relationship, the version of yourself you’ve been chasing - or you inherit a diagnosis. The “reasons why you don’t” aren’t meant as excuses; they’re meant as clarity. That’s the subtext: stop romanticizing wanting. Wanting is cheap. Evidence is expensive.
There’s also a quiet antidote to entitlement here. Roddick isn’t promising the universe will deliver if you visualize hard enough. He’s saying time will force an accounting: if you didn’t get it, it’s because something intervened - effort, talent, timing, health, luck, other people’s agency. Athletes live inside that mix, where preparation matters and randomness still shows up with a wild bounce off the line.
Culturally, the quote reads as an early-2000s corrective to both hustle mythology and soft fatalism. It makes ambition more adult: not “never give up,” but “be honest about outcomes.” That honesty is its sting, and its usefulness.
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|---|---|
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Roddick, Andy. (2026, January 16). At one point in your life, you'll have the thing you want or the reasons why you don't. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/at-one-point-in-your-life-youll-have-the-thing-138673/
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Roddick, Andy. "At one point in your life, you'll have the thing you want or the reasons why you don't." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/at-one-point-in-your-life-youll-have-the-thing-138673/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"At one point in your life, you'll have the thing you want or the reasons why you don't." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/at-one-point-in-your-life-youll-have-the-thing-138673/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.







