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Education Quote by Kristin Scott Thomas

"At school, I always wanted to belong to a gang, and no one would have me. So I'd have make my own gang, but with everybody else's leftovers"

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There’s a deceptively punchy sadness in this line, the kind that lands because it refuses to beg for sympathy. Kristin Scott Thomas frames childhood exclusion with the brisk timing of a performer: the setup is almost comic ("I always wanted to belong to a gang"), then the gut-punch arrives in five plain words ("no one would have me"). The rhythm mimics the social experience itself: desire, rejection, and the quick mental pivot you make to survive it.

Calling it a "gang" is the sly masterstroke. She’s not romanticizing friendship; she’s admitting the appeal of tribal power, the way kids crave a badge and a border. "Gang" suggests rules, hierarchy, and safety in numbers, but it also carries menace. That ambiguity lets the quote hold two truths at once: the longing to be protected and the awareness that groups can be cruel precisely because they’re groups.

The subtext sharpens with "leftovers". It’s a brutal word for human beings, and that’s why it works. She’s capturing the internalized language of adolescence, when social status feels like a zero-sum economy and anyone outside the popular ring gets treated like scraps. Yet she also flips "leftovers" into a kind of agency: if the gatekeepers won’t let you in, you build your own table. Not a heroic underdog speech, more like a pragmatic blueprint for identity: community isn’t always found; sometimes it’s assembled from whoever’s been told they don’t count. That’s a quietly radical origin story for an actor, too: making a world with the rejected as your cast.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Thomas, Kristin Scott. (2026, January 18). At school, I always wanted to belong to a gang, and no one would have me. So I'd have make my own gang, but with everybody else's leftovers. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/at-school-i-always-wanted-to-belong-to-a-gang-and-23378/

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Thomas, Kristin Scott. "At school, I always wanted to belong to a gang, and no one would have me. So I'd have make my own gang, but with everybody else's leftovers." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/at-school-i-always-wanted-to-belong-to-a-gang-and-23378/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"At school, I always wanted to belong to a gang, and no one would have me. So I'd have make my own gang, but with everybody else's leftovers." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/at-school-i-always-wanted-to-belong-to-a-gang-and-23378/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Kristin Scott Thomas (born May 24, 1960) is a Actress from England.

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