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Daily Inspiration Quote by Nigella Lawson

"At some stages of your life you will deal with things and at others you are overwhelmed with misery and anxiety"

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Lawson frames adulthood as a switch-flip between competence and collapse, and the bluntness is the point. “At some stages” is quietly radical: it refuses the modern demand for a stable, branded self. You are not always “resilient” or always “a mess.” You cycle. The sentence gives permission for that oscillation without dressing it up as a comeback story.

Her verb choice does the heavy lifting. “Deal with things” sounds almost domestic: practical, unglamorous, the kind of phrase you’d use about laundry or inbox triage. Then she slams into “overwhelmed,” a word that admits scale and bodily panic. Misery and anxiety aren’t framed as moral failings or personal mismanagement; they’re weather systems that arrive. The subtext is compassion, but also realism: the self-help fantasy that good habits can abolish suffering doesn’t survive contact with actual life.

Context matters because Lawson’s public persona has always braided control and vulnerability. She’s associated with pleasure, nurturance, and the calming choreography of food; she’s also been candid about grief, scrutiny, and private upheaval. Coming from a journalist and TV figure whose work trades in reassurance, the line reads as a corrective to the idea that comfort is a permanent state you can curate. It’s a small, precise act of cultural counter-programming: life isn’t a steady climb toward mastery, it’s a series of seasons where you cope, then you crack, then you cope again.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Lawson, Nigella. (2026, January 18). At some stages of your life you will deal with things and at others you are overwhelmed with misery and anxiety. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/at-some-stages-of-your-life-you-will-deal-with-17877/

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Lawson, Nigella. "At some stages of your life you will deal with things and at others you are overwhelmed with misery and anxiety." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/at-some-stages-of-your-life-you-will-deal-with-17877/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"At some stages of your life you will deal with things and at others you are overwhelmed with misery and anxiety." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/at-some-stages-of-your-life-you-will-deal-with-17877/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.

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Nigella Lawson (born January 6, 1960) is a Journalist from United Kingdom.

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