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War & Peace Quote by Ann Wilson

"At that time a lot of young men didn't want to go to the war and kill. This guy that I fell in love with was one of those so he escaped to Canada and I followed him"

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It lands with the blunt clarity of someone who lived through an era when romance and politics kept colliding in the same cramped apartment. Ann Wilson isn’t polishing the story into a slogan about peace; she’s giving you the plain, complicated logistics of dissent: young men who “didn’t want to go to the war and kill,” a lover who refuses, a border that becomes both exit route and moral line, and a woman who chooses the relationship strongly enough to cross it too.

The wording matters. “Go to the war” and “kill” are unadorned verbs, stripped of patriotic abstraction. That’s the point: Vietnam-era rhetoric tried to launder violence into duty; Wilson’s sentence drags it back into the body. Calling him “this guy” is almost dismissive, but it’s also intimate and real, like she’s refusing to mythologize him into a hero. The heroism, if it exists, sits in the choice to refuse.

The subtext is that fleeing isn’t framed as cowardice but as an alternative form of courage: opting out of a machine that demanded participation. “He escaped to Canada and I followed him” is a tiny epic of loyalty that also hints at what women’s agency looked like in that moment: not necessarily drafted, but still drafted by consequence. Following isn’t passive here; it’s a decision to accept exile, stigma, and uncertainty in exchange for a private ethics. For a musician, that’s also origin-story material: the personal upheaval that feeds a voice sharp enough to cut through anthems.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Wilson, Ann. (n.d.). At that time a lot of young men didn't want to go to the war and kill. This guy that I fell in love with was one of those so he escaped to Canada and I followed him. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/at-that-time-a-lot-of-young-men-didnt-want-to-go-108873/

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Wilson, Ann. "At that time a lot of young men didn't want to go to the war and kill. This guy that I fell in love with was one of those so he escaped to Canada and I followed him." FixQuotes. Accessed February 1, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/at-that-time-a-lot-of-young-men-didnt-want-to-go-108873/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"At that time a lot of young men didn't want to go to the war and kill. This guy that I fell in love with was one of those so he escaped to Canada and I followed him." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/at-that-time-a-lot-of-young-men-didnt-want-to-go-108873/. Accessed 1 Feb. 2026.

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Ann Wilson (born June 19, 1950) is a Musician from USA.

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