"At the bottom of enmity between strangers lies indifference"
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The line works because it reframes “enemy” as a relationship without relation. Between strangers, there’s no history to settle, no intimacy to betray, no genuine stakes. What remains is a blank space easily filled with suspicion, contempt, or the bureaucratic cruelty of “not my problem.” Kierkegaard’s punch is that indifference isn’t neutral; it’s an active condition that makes harm frictionless. If empathy is the force that slows us down, indifference is the lubricant that lets conflict slide into place.
Context matters: writing in a 19th-century Europe modernizing into anonymity, Kierkegaard was preoccupied with how “the crowd” dissolves responsibility. In a mass public, people become types, not persons; ethics becomes abstract; accountability evaporates. That’s why this sentence lands like a diagnosis of modern life: the stranger isn’t first hated, they’re first unseen. And once unseen, they can be turned into anything - nuisance, threat, punchline, scapegoat - with alarming ease.
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Kierkegaard, Søren. (2026, January 15). At the bottom of enmity between strangers lies indifference. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/at-the-bottom-of-enmity-between-strangers-lies-1794/
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Kierkegaard, Søren. "At the bottom of enmity between strangers lies indifference." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/at-the-bottom-of-enmity-between-strangers-lies-1794/.
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"At the bottom of enmity between strangers lies indifference." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/at-the-bottom-of-enmity-between-strangers-lies-1794/. Accessed 28 Feb. 2026.













