"At the center of your being you have the answer; you know who you are and you know what you want"
About this Quote
The intent is practical, even political in its own small way. In a culture of advisors, rulers, rituals, and social obligations (the Warring States era was thick with competing schools telling people how to live), Lao Tzu offers a counter-program: authority doesn’t have to arrive from courts, credentials, or consensus. “You know who you are” resists the idea that identity is primarily a social assignment. “You know what you want” pushes against the anxious modern habit of outsourcing desire to markets, status ladders, and algorithmic cues.
The subtext, though, is not pure self-affirmation. It’s also a warning about self-deception. Daoism assumes we’re constantly dragged off-center by desire, fear, and performance. The “answer” is there, but it’s buried under striving. The line works because it makes introspection feel less like navel-gazing and more like deprogramming: stop contorting yourself to fit the world’s scripts, and your next move gets simpler, quieter, and harder to manipulate.
Quote Details
| Topic | Wisdom |
|---|---|
| Source | Later attribution: Be Who You Are (Jimmy Brandmeier, 2018) modern compilationISBN: 9781683509028 · ID: 6w9dDwAAQBAJ
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Tzu, Lao. (2026, February 12). At the center of your being you have the answer; you know who you are and you know what you want. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/at-the-center-of-your-being-you-have-the-answer-13812/
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Tzu, Lao. "At the center of your being you have the answer; you know who you are and you know what you want." FixQuotes. February 12, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/at-the-center-of-your-being-you-have-the-answer-13812/.
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"At the center of your being you have the answer; you know who you are and you know what you want." FixQuotes, 12 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/at-the-center-of-your-being-you-have-the-answer-13812/. Accessed 25 Feb. 2026.












