"At the innermost core of all loneliness is a deep and powerful yearning for union with one's lost self"
About this Quote
“Yearning for union” borrows the language of romance and mysticism, then aims it at identity. That word choice isn’t accidental. It recasts selfhood as a relationship, complete with separation, longing, and the fantasy of reunion. “Lost self” carries a double charge: loss as tragedy (something taken) and loss as agency (something abandoned). The subtext is gently accusatory. You may blame the world for your loneliness, but part of what hurts is the knowledge that you’ve compromised, forgotten, or betrayed your own inner continuity.
As a playwright, Francis writes for collision: characters who speak one thing and mean another, who perform versions of themselves. Read in that theatrical context, the quote feels like a note about modern life as perpetual role-play. We curate, adapt, survive; the mask becomes habitual; then the “union” we crave isn’t just intimacy with someone else, but a homecoming to the self that existed before the improvisation hardened into a script.
Quote Details
| Topic | Loneliness |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Francis, Brendan. (2026, January 17). At the innermost core of all loneliness is a deep and powerful yearning for union with one's lost self. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/at-the-innermost-core-of-all-loneliness-is-a-deep-41771/
Chicago Style
Francis, Brendan. "At the innermost core of all loneliness is a deep and powerful yearning for union with one's lost self." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/at-the-innermost-core-of-all-loneliness-is-a-deep-41771/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"At the innermost core of all loneliness is a deep and powerful yearning for union with one's lost self." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/at-the-innermost-core-of-all-loneliness-is-a-deep-41771/. Accessed 17 Feb. 2026.








