"At the time that I knew them, they were not living together. They began dating again after their divorce, so I didn't really see fighting"
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The intent is defensive: narrow the timeline, narrow the claim, narrow the liability. "At the time that I knew them" builds a legalistic fence around his knowledge. It's not a memory; it's a jurisdiction. Then he drops two qualifiers that do most of the work. First: "they were not living together" quietly explains away any absence of evidence. If you didn't see their domestic life up close, you can't testify to its temperature. Second: "They began dating again after their divorce" reframes a volatile relationship into something almost sitcom-normal, a reboot instead of a relapse.
The real subtext is credibility management. Kaelin isn't declaring harmony; he's declaring a lack of firsthand conflict, which is radically different. "So I didn't really see fighting" is the softest possible conclusion: the "really" gives him room to later admit to tension, shouting, or vibes without contradicting himself. It also performs neutrality, the classic move of a peripheral witness who wants to appear reasonable on camera.
Context matters: this is a celebrity speaking from inside a sensational trial culture that rewarded proximity and punished certainty. The quote isn’t about what happened; it’s about how to survive being asked, repeatedly, to say what happened.
Quote Details
| Topic | Divorce |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Kaelin, Kato. (2026, January 18). At the time that I knew them, they were not living together. They began dating again after their divorce, so I didn't really see fighting. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/at-the-time-that-i-knew-them-they-were-not-living-4568/
Chicago Style
Kaelin, Kato. "At the time that I knew them, they were not living together. They began dating again after their divorce, so I didn't really see fighting." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/at-the-time-that-i-knew-them-they-were-not-living-4568/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"At the time that I knew them, they were not living together. They began dating again after their divorce, so I didn't really see fighting." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/at-the-time-that-i-knew-them-they-were-not-living-4568/. Accessed 22 Feb. 2026.






