"Back then, we could drive a mile from home and there was nothing. Now it's grown in every direction and is populated and modernized. I guess I have mixed feelings about it, but I'm not someone that thinks everything should stop growing"
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The intent feels less like a lament and more like self-management. Sweet is resisting the easy posture of the aggrieved local who treats development as moral decay. "I guess" functions as a shrug and a shield, a way to admit grief without turning it into a crusade. It's also an artist's move: he frames transformation as texture, not tragedy, which keeps the emotional register human instead of ideological.
Subtextually, he's describing the bargain of American growth: convenience and opportunity traded for the spaciousness that made a place feel like yours. "I'm not someone that thinks everything should stop growing" is a preemptive rebuttal to the accusation that nostalgia is just selfishness in vintage clothing. He wants permission to miss what was lost while acknowledging that other people need housing, jobs, roads, light.
Context matters because Sweet's work often lives in that same tension - jangly brightness with an undercurrent of yearning. This quote plays like a lyric draft about time's one-way street: you can love the past, but you don't get to freeze it.
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| Topic | Embrace Change |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Sweet, Matthew. (n.d.). Back then, we could drive a mile from home and there was nothing. Now it's grown in every direction and is populated and modernized. I guess I have mixed feelings about it, but I'm not someone that thinks everything should stop growing. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/back-then-we-could-drive-a-mile-from-home-and-120182/
Chicago Style
Sweet, Matthew. "Back then, we could drive a mile from home and there was nothing. Now it's grown in every direction and is populated and modernized. I guess I have mixed feelings about it, but I'm not someone that thinks everything should stop growing." FixQuotes. Accessed February 1, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/back-then-we-could-drive-a-mile-from-home-and-120182/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Back then, we could drive a mile from home and there was nothing. Now it's grown in every direction and is populated and modernized. I guess I have mixed feelings about it, but I'm not someone that thinks everything should stop growing." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/back-then-we-could-drive-a-mile-from-home-and-120182/. Accessed 1 Feb. 2026.



