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"Bad directors will tell you they absolutely know how to do it, and how it has to happen; there's this insecurity that leads them to feeling like they have to control everything"

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The barb here isn’t aimed at incompetence so much as panic dressed up as authority. Molly Parker frames “bad directors” as people who confuse certainty with vision, and the word “absolutely” does a lot of work: it’s the tell of someone performing confidence because they can’t tolerate the vulnerability of not knowing. On a film set, where time is money and everyone is watching, admitting uncertainty feels like weakness. Parker’s point is that it’s often the opposite. The director who needs to “control everything” is broadcasting fear: fear of chaos, fear of actors making choices that don’t fit a private plan, fear of being exposed as less-than-omniscient.

The subtext is actor-specific and quietly political. Sets run on hierarchies, and actors are frequently asked to surrender their instincts to a single “correct” interpretation. Parker is defending a different model of leadership: one that treats performance as a living collaboration rather than an execution of orders. “How it has to happen” is her caricature of the director who turns art into compliance.

Context matters: Parker has spent a career moving between intimate indie work and bigger productions, spaces where the best directing often looks like restraint. Great directors create conditions - clarity of stakes, emotional safety, a shared language - then let unpredictability do its job. Her critique lands because it identifies a common workplace dynamic far beyond film: micromanagement as a symptom, not a strategy.

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Molly Parker (born July 17, 1972) is a Actress from Canada.

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