"Bad experience is a school that only fools keep going to"
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“Bad experience” gets cast here not as a tragic rite of passage but as remedial education you choose to keep paying for. Benson’s line works because it weaponizes a simple metaphor - the schoolhouse - to smuggle in a moral demand: learn once, change fast, stop romanticizing your own scars. It’s leadership rhetoric with a pastoral edge, built to sound like common sense while quietly drawing a bright line between the wise (who adapt) and the foolish (who repeat).
The intent is corrective, almost parental. Benson isn’t denying that hardship teaches; he’s rejecting the cultural temptation to treat suffering as proof of depth. The subtext is about agency. “Experience” can happen to you; “keep going to” makes it voluntary. That twist shifts the listener from victim to participant, which is bracing - and, as counsel, potentially liberating. It also carries a faint sting of accountability: if you’re back in the same mess, the problem isn’t fate, it’s you.
Context matters. Benson, as a prominent religious leader in 20th-century America, often spoke in a register that prized self-mastery, repentance, and practical moral clarity. The quip fits that world: short, portable, disciplinary. It’s a line designed to circulate - the kind of aphorism that becomes a congregational check on complacency. Still, it’s not tender. It leaves little room for cycles like poverty, addiction, or trauma where “going back” isn’t mere stupidity but structure and circumstance. That hardness is part of its power, and part of its risk.
The intent is corrective, almost parental. Benson isn’t denying that hardship teaches; he’s rejecting the cultural temptation to treat suffering as proof of depth. The subtext is about agency. “Experience” can happen to you; “keep going to” makes it voluntary. That twist shifts the listener from victim to participant, which is bracing - and, as counsel, potentially liberating. It also carries a faint sting of accountability: if you’re back in the same mess, the problem isn’t fate, it’s you.
Context matters. Benson, as a prominent religious leader in 20th-century America, often spoke in a register that prized self-mastery, repentance, and practical moral clarity. The quip fits that world: short, portable, disciplinary. It’s a line designed to circulate - the kind of aphorism that becomes a congregational check on complacency. Still, it’s not tender. It leaves little room for cycles like poverty, addiction, or trauma where “going back” isn’t mere stupidity but structure and circumstance. That hardness is part of its power, and part of its risk.
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| Topic | Learning from Mistakes |
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