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Love Quote by Fulton J. Sheen

"Baloney is flattery laid on so thick it cannot be true, and blarney is flattery so thin we love it"

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Sheen slices through praise with the instincts of a preacher who has heard every angelic compliment delivered for all the wrong reasons. “Baloney” and “blarney” are comic words, but he uses them like moral instruments: one is flattery so overstuffed it collapses under its own weight; the other is flattery so light it slips past our defenses. The joke lands because it indicts both the speaker and the listener. We’re meant to be embarrassed not just by obvious brown-nosing, but by how willingly we accept the “thin” version when it’s calibrated to feel harmless.

The intent is pastoral and diagnostic. Sheen isn’t merely warning against liars; he’s describing a psychology of vanity. Thick flattery is easy to reject because it insults our intelligence. Thin flattery is more dangerous because it flatters our self-image as sensible people. We “love it” precisely because it lets us enjoy admiration while keeping plausible deniability: I’m not gullible, I’m just appreciated.

Context matters: mid-20th-century American culture, with its salesmanship, public relations, and a burgeoning media economy, professionalized charm. As a clergyman and public communicator, Sheen was attuned to how language can seduce without sounding like temptation. The subtext is theological in a streetwise suit: pride rarely announces itself with trumpets; it arrives as a tasteful compliment. The line doubles as social advice and spiritual caution, suggesting that discernment isn’t about spotting the cartoonish con, but about noticing the small, pleasurable distortions we invite into our own mirror.

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TopicWitty One-Liners
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Later attribution: The Little Green Book of Blarney (Ruth Cullen) modern compilationISBN: 9781441300225 · ID: fZLrWkFOed0C
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... Baloney is flattery laid on so thick it cannot be true , and blarney is flattery so thin we love it . FULTON J. SHEEN Americans may be " full of baloney , " but the Irish possess the gift of the blarney — an irre- pressible charm and ...
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Sheen, Fulton J. (2026, March 10). Baloney is flattery laid on so thick it cannot be true, and blarney is flattery so thin we love it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/baloney-is-flattery-laid-on-so-thick-it-cannot-be-143737/

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Sheen, Fulton J. "Baloney is flattery laid on so thick it cannot be true, and blarney is flattery so thin we love it." FixQuotes. March 10, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/baloney-is-flattery-laid-on-so-thick-it-cannot-be-143737/.

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"Baloney is flattery laid on so thick it cannot be true, and blarney is flattery so thin we love it." FixQuotes, 10 Mar. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/baloney-is-flattery-laid-on-so-thick-it-cannot-be-143737/. Accessed 1 Apr. 2026.

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Fulton J. Sheen

Fulton J. Sheen (May 8, 1895 - December 9, 1979) was a Clergyman from USA.

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