"Basically he never went to work and didn't have a job. Of course I thought he did. I thought he was on the phone doing business deals instead of borrowing money from people"
About this Quote
“Never went to work and didn’t have a job” is blunt, almost childlike phrasing, the kind you reach for when you’re stripping a situation down to its bones. Then she flips to the more interesting sentence: “Of course I thought he did.” That “of course” is doing heavy lifting. It signals how social scripts protect fraud. We’re trained to read certain behaviors - being busy, taking calls, projecting urgency - as evidence of legitimacy. “On the phone doing business deals” is the archetype of respectable productivity, especially in a culture that equates constant motion with success.
The devastating detail is “instead of borrowing money from people.” It reframes the same performance (phone calls, busyness, vague transactions) as predation. Subtext: the con isn’t just his; it’s the shared infrastructure of trust that lets someone fake a working life as long as they look the part. Coming from a celebrity model, it also brushes up against gendered expectations: partners are often expected to believe in a man’s “work” as a default setting. The quote lands because it captures the moment denial breaks - when a polished narrative collapses into a painfully simple truth.
Quote Details
| Topic | Betrayal |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Brinkley, Christie. (2026, January 17). Basically he never went to work and didn't have a job. Of course I thought he did. I thought he was on the phone doing business deals instead of borrowing money from people. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/basically-he-never-went-to-work-and-didnt-have-a-48822/
Chicago Style
Brinkley, Christie. "Basically he never went to work and didn't have a job. Of course I thought he did. I thought he was on the phone doing business deals instead of borrowing money from people." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/basically-he-never-went-to-work-and-didnt-have-a-48822/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Basically he never went to work and didn't have a job. Of course I thought he did. I thought he was on the phone doing business deals instead of borrowing money from people." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/basically-he-never-went-to-work-and-didnt-have-a-48822/. Accessed 7 Feb. 2026.



