Life & Wisdom Quote by Marilyn vos Savant

Independence is framed here not as a lifestyle preference but as a survival skill: a kind of emotional insurance you hope you never have to cash in. Marilyn vos Savant’s line has the clean, bracing logic of advice meant to outlast your current mood. It’s not romantic, and that’s the point. It refuses the flattering story we tell ourselves that wanting connection guarantees it, or that being partnered is proof of personal stability.

The intent is quietly corrective. “Be able to” shifts the focus from longing to competence, from fate to preparation. The phrase “even if you don’t want to” grants the discomfort up front, then denies it veto power. And “think you will never find it necessary” targets the most dangerous form of dependency: the kind built on certainty. People don’t plan for loneliness when they’re in love, or when friends feel permanent, or when youth convinces you the social world is endlessly replenishing. Vos Savant punctures that optimism without melodrama.

The subtext isn’t “choose solitude”; it’s “don’t outsource your basic functioning.” Learn to eat, sleep, make decisions, handle money, manage your own interior weather without needing an audience or a caretaker. In that sense, it’s less about being alone than about not being trapped.

Context matters: coming from a public intellectual known for rationality and problem-solving, the advice reads like a preemptive strike against magical thinking. It’s a reminder that autonomy is not a consolation prize; it’s leverage. If you can live alone, you can choose company instead of clinging to it.