"Be careful the environment you choose for it will shape you; be careful the friends you choose for you will become like them"
About this Quote
Stone, a businessman who made his name in the mid-century American success ecosystem, speaks from a world obsessed with inputs and outcomes. The subtext is managerial: treat your life like a portfolio. Risk isn't only bad markets; it's bad atmospheres. There's a faint moral austerity here, too. "Choose" implies agency, and by extension blame. If you stagnate, this logic suggests, check your office culture, your dinner companions, your inner circle. It's a gentler cousin of hustle culture's harsher creed: you are responsible for your trajectory, so curate accordingly.
What makes the quote work is its simplicity and its implied threat. It doesn't promise transformation; it warns of contamination. Environment "will shape you" is passive and inevitable, an almost architectural view of the self. "You will become like them" makes friendship sound less like comfort and more like osmosis. In an era of networking, mentorship, and "who you know" economics, Stone turns social life into strategy - a reminder that the people and places we normalize eventually become the standards we live by.
Quote Details
| Topic | Friendship |
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| Source | Later attribution: Roar Like You Mean It! (Thomas Hackelman, 2015) modern compilationISBN: 9781508625476 · ID: 76_vBgAAQBAJ
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"Be careful the environment you choose for it will shape you; be careful the friends you choose for you will become like them." FixQuotes, 12 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/be-careful-the-environment-you-choose-for-it-will-22001/. Accessed 16 Feb. 2026.









